Please hold sadistic, abusive, people accountable for thier abusive, threatening, and dangerous behaviors. People like Dave Spinks should be held accountable for his perverted and criminally abusive behaviors. He is clearly interested in hurting, degrading, demeaning, and inflicting agony upon others and will clearly go to great lengths to do so. It takes a lot of time and energy to create at least 4 fake, impersonating email accounts and then 4 more fake WordPress accounts just to post demeaning, abusive, threatening and humiliating comments to a blog that he had no reason to visit in the first place.
No respectable man would ever engage in this type of behavior. Everyone makes mistakes but Dave has proven that this is far beyond a one time mistake. The fact that he chose such demeaning, sadistic email names and the middle and last name of my ex-boyfriend whom he has also been targeting (before he started targeting me ) which was since March 2015, is just disturbing at best.
Let me be clear when I say that I have never had a desire to date Dave and when I made myself clear on that, I did so privately. So it is unacceptable for him to post these types of perverted, sadistic comments PUBLICLY.
Also, please be aware that Dave has never been invited to my home (unless he is stalking me) so AGAIN… I am not sure why he is commenting as the PARANORMAL COMMUNITY discussing my PERSONAL life. (with inaccurate information that has nothing to do with paranormal community)
Note the time stamps, email addresses and then IP addresses confirming WHERE the comments came from:
At one time, I considered Dave a friend. I even included him in MY hometown interviews with MY local newspaper in 2014 to help him out when he was first getting started. Again, HELPING HIM!
I’m typically willing to let bygones be bygones but not when I am the target of repeated criminal offenses like threats, stalking, and harassment on a regular basis for nearly 2 years by a man WHO CLAIMS TO BE A RETIRED FEDERAL LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER.
He knows EXACTLY what he is doing. All because I was not interested in having a romantic relationship with him. But again, what does MY personal life have to do with anything Paranormal Community related? And why does he feel as though he can speak for the entire community?
Now if we are going to call in to question credibility and community concerns, let us first look at FACTS. I did nothing but help Dave until I felt uncomfortable and feared for my safety around him because I was not romantically interested in him and this angered him. That’s when I stopped working with him (and so did a few other females in the community because none of us felt safe) when we found out that he was violent and had been arrested:
Did Niki and I make this public? No. We just stopped working with him. And this is when all of the trolling and harassment started for me. Particularly after I appeared on Livescifi in March of 2015 and my relationship with Tim was made public.
If you look at facts just from today, he used 4 separate email (one using Tim’s middle and last name) (CREEPY AND CRIMINAL) and WordPress accounts to post perverted, humiliating, defamatory comments to my blog within a 2 hour (actually 40 minute) period. (Check the time stamps for yourselves)
The IP addresses from the email accounts and blog comments are PROOF that they came from him directly as he was arrogant enough to use his own firstname.lastname@example.org account to post disgusting and sexually explicit comments to my blog. In addition, there is proof that he also posted a copy of the comment on my blog to a defamatory fake dating complaint post on a revenge website solely used to defame others.
Thanks to some good research of the IP and email addresses he used, we now know that Dave Spinks is proven to troll and stalk women online with the sole purpose of humiliating them and threatening them. This behavior is a sign of a sadistic-aggressive personality who is abusive and disrespectful.
It’s dangerous to think there’s any way for any woman to be truly safe around Dave. There’s really no way to be completely safe or to be unaffected by the psychological damage that Dave intends to inflict on whomever he deems to be his target. Most sadists develop a special fascination with a particular “target,” taking a sense of “ownership” over that target and exacerbating the risk associated with the target trying to break free. This is obvious as witnessed by the brutal attacks and threats made just within a two hour (40min) period. This does not include the two years of harassment and stalking that can be linked to Dave now using emails and IP addresses. Dave’s behavior is typical of a sadistic predatory psychopath. This type of person is, without question, one of the most dangerous people on the planet. People like Dave take great satisfaction in manipulating and controlling others… usually through fear.
I am extremely concerned for my safety and the safety of other women and especially children within the community if Dave happens to target them like he did me. This type of person does not just do this one time. In this case, Dave should know better as he claims to be a retired FEDERAL LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER.
Given the posts, which are sitting in my email inbox (available in this blog as screenshots) and could easily be pulled up for review of authenticity in addition to matching IP addresses and WHOIS information, Dave is a very dangerous individual.
I will be reporting this information to law enforcement for investigation but it doesn’t take a cop to figure out just how disturbing and criminal Dave’s behavior is.
So I will leave you with some things to consider before you make up a bunch of BS excuses to ignore this sadistic and abusive behavior because “Dave is such a nice guy.”
Would you want YOUR daughter, wife, sister, girlfriend, niece, aunt, cousin or any other female that you care about to receive these type of messages and comments?
Would you want YOUR daughter, wife, sister, girlfriend, niece, aunt, cousin or any other female that you care ever so slightly for to be left in a dark, remote location with this man who may or may not take a fancy to her and when she turns him down, then what?
Can you HONESTLY say that you’d feel comfortable with this type of man having access to YOUR daughter, wife, sister, girlfriend, niece, aunt, cousin or any other female that you care ever so slightly for’s address, phone number, email, or contact info?
If so, read these emails again and let them really sink in…..
Note the audacity to send one signed “Love, Dave Spinks” from his CRPTV email address and then notice how he feels important enough to speak for the ENTIRE PARANORMAL COMMUNITY in his comment addressed “Dear Cindie Harper” …. Then note the matching IP addresses and time stamps….. now picture a MAN saying these things out loud to a female that you care about all because she posted a blog that had nothing to do with him (or so she thought).
Do you really think this type of man should be given authority and a platform in OUR community?
This behavior is criminal and dangerous. It’s unacceptable and uncalled for. If he treats the living in this manner (unprovoked) then does anyone REALLY believe that he will respect the dead? A RETIRED FEDERAL LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER SHOULD KNOW BETTER.
Also, please take note of WHERE the IP ADDRESS IS LOCATED: HYATTSVILLE MARYLAND.
Now who has ALSO been known to stalk me and was issued a restraining order and has ties to HYATTSVILLE MARYLAND?!
Note the time and date stamps on each one and the IP addresses. Feel free to google it yourself.